Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Single father

It all about problem is singleness and loneliness. You know that in most cases when it is about single parents it is about single mothers, though there are sometimes single fathers. They are usually men that lost their wives and they were left alone with their kids and they have to care about those kids and their bringing up. I say, it is easier for woman to be a single mother than for a man to be a single father. See, women have that weird and precious mother instinct and they always know what they have to do in this or that case. But, things are different for men. Men are deprived of that instinct and they can’t just figure out what has to be done in case a baby is crying or yelling or whatever. And that is why the first thing most single fathers do is they are looking for new woman in their lives. They need a mother for their kids and they need wife at home who has that instinct and knows what to do. But, there are not many women who want and would marry a single father. Besides, in case there is such a woman thing will get worse in case she fails to befriend with a child.

Parents and grandparents

The eternal fight you may see if take a closer look at your parents and grandparents. It is the eternal fight of grown up people who want to prove they are adult enough and of those who are old and wise and who always take their kids as children no matter how old they are. They always mass with each other because they never know when it is high time to stop. And the main problem between them is the problem of grandchildren. Young parents think they are smart enough to bring up their children the way they want to, but their parents think children need help and they are always there with those pieces of advice and they do their best in order to help but that help only ruins everything. As a rule grandparents are crazy about their grandchildren and they let them to everything their parents forbid them to do and with these actions they turn grandchildren alien towards their parents. They should never do so and they should never mass with bringing up of their grandchildren. The problem of kids and parents are always there, no matter how old people are.